“What did I tell you? Huh! What did I tell you? Didn’t I tell you they were going to get him.” It was probably early 1964 when my Uncle Jim greeted me with those words. I was living with my parents and had returned from a store, and Jim was there on a rare visit. He was a machinist on ships and had sailed all over the world. Jim was a few years older than my dad, shorter, but very strong. They had both been raised in dire poverty; their mother died giving birth to Huey. Their father had been in the military, but died out West. (Only upon my father’ death did I learn that he did not just die, he had committed suicide.)
Jim and
Huey were raised in New Orleans near the city dump. Huey told me he could push his hand against
the wall, and it would move away from the floor so he could see the
ground. Breakfast might consist of weak
tea and stale bread from which they scattered the roaches. My dad finished school at 3rd
grade, but use to lie saying he had finished 5th grade instead. His “brudder” had a similar education.
My dad
generally worked 5 days a week and drank Friday nights – unless Jim was in
town. They would sit in the kitchen and
reminisce about their struggles. Huey
was younger and bigger than Jim. As a
young man, Huey had wanted to be a boxer, and some photos showed him with a
developed body. One of his first jobs
was as a bouncer in a prohibition-era saloon.
He allowed the wrong person in the door, and he and other employees were
arrested for breaking the law. However,
the newly elected Roosevelt Administration indicated repeal, and the charges
against all were dropped. Nevertheless,
finding a job in the Great Depression was not easy.
Huey met my
mother when she was employed as a clerk in a store owned by one of her many
brothers. Her dad had 13 children by two
wives; one died and he had remarried. My
mom, Millie, was the eldest from the 2nd wife. My grandfather or great grandfather had fled
the famine in Ireland, come to Illinois, joined the Union Army, and following
the war, ventured South. My grandfather
was in the liquor business, and had a sizable home with a large yard not far
from down town. He and his friends and
associates would play poker at his home.
Millie must have been there, for one of his associates was taken with
her, and she with him. They decided to
get married.
When Millie
invited one of her older half sisters, the sibling replied, “It would be better
if you married a nigger!” Millie’s
mother had been German-Lutheran, but converted to Roman Catholicism on her
death bed. The whole family was
Roman. Millie was rather well educated,
having graduated from 8th grade.
(She may have received a better education than those receiving a BA
today.) She was surely more of a rebel,
for when she was going to marry Gus Cohn, she was going to do it in the Reform
Synagogue, and she was converting to Judaism.
Only two brothers from her side attended her wedding.
Gus was
short and older than Millie. I know
little about him, because my father, Millie’s second husband, did not like to
hear about her first marriage. Gus sold
liquor, had a car, and a Black chauffeur.
Part of his territory was Mississippi.
A Jew, a Black, and a Catholic who had converted to Judaism, travelling
in Mississippi to sell liquor may not have been the most popular group. Occasionally, they would be insulted and
denounced by ministers. Then, in the
hotel at night, they would receive a phone call from the same minister, asking
to purchase liquor discreetly. Gus would
not sell to them under such circumstances.
At the state line when they returned to Louisiana, Millie said the
chauffeur would always give a big sigh of relief. After a few years, Gus died of leukemia. Millie, not having been born into the tribe,
returned to her family and Catholicism.
But she remained philo-Semitic.
While most
white New Orleanians spoke with a Brooklynese-Jersey type accent, my mother’s
was more Northern, more standard Mid Western.
I recall at her funeral some of her sisters speaking about the “goils,”
and referring to older women. My dad counted, won, too, tree, fo. In NO an accent usually revealed a religious
preference – Brooklynese meant a native and Catholic; Southern drawl meant born
elsewhere and Protestant.
Millie was
older than Huey, but she was an attractive blond who stood 5’ 2. Huey was a bit over 6’. They were married in a civil ceremony, and
later I appeared. Millie was better
educated and helped Huey in many small ways and in trying to get jobs. When I was a baby, he drove a laundry truck,
an electric vehicle. Because he had a
young child, he was not drafted, but worked building ships at Higgins
Shipyards, ships which historian Stephen Ambrose credits with helping to win the
war against the Axis. Years later, Huey
would die of a cancer associated with asbestos, which he installed when
building the ships. While Huey was
building the ships, Jim was manning them, carrying supplies to the Allies. He said sometimes the ships were made of
concrete, and only one torpedo from a German U-boat would have sunk the
freighter.
Shortly
after the war I was in bed near the kitchen and overheard Huey and Jim speaking
about old times. “If only Hitler had
won.” The other agreed. It would have been much better for the German
people. (Huey, Jim, Millie, and I were
all half German, the other half green Irish on one side, Orange Irish on the
other.) Whatever their personal views,
Huey later assured me that if drafted, he would certainly have fought against
the Germans. Jim was facing the German
enemy every time he sailed the ocean – and there were German U-boats spotted
near the mouth of the Mississippi. As a
mischievous child I quickly learned how to start an argument between my
parents. Friday night, when Huey drank,
I could turn the radio onto CBS WWL for a program the Goldbergs. Huey would go into a rant on the Jews, and
Millie would nervously endure it.
Yet things
were not so simple. I was going on 10
and on a Wednesday as the radio was reporting the latest election returns
(things were slower then). “Daddy, who
is winning?” Truman he replied, with a
big smile. Millie than added, But Dewey
is supposed to win. Huey had voted for
Truman. My mother preferred Dewey, but
did not vote.
I don’t
know how old I was, but I was quite young, when my mother woke me one morning, “Go
beat up your father.” What? Why?
Jim and been over the night before, and with Huey they decided to turn
off the small gas heater near my bed.
Then they would turn it on again, but without a match to light it. They would eliminate the sissy son. Millie stopped them. She saved my life. We often read about Muslims who kill their
children for reasons of honor – “honor killings.” It is not only Muslims. Father-son relations are often difficult. (Millie saved me then, but she may have lived to rue her decision. Her last words to me were, "He's no good.")
I chose to
speak Northern, like my mom. I did well
in school and was a good boy. I had been
christened Catholic, but neither parent was particularly religious. It was simply a way to get ahead in Catholic
New Orleans. Not having much religious
training, Millie’s relatives intervened and pushed her into having me attend catechism
about 7th grade. I rebelled,
and it was the only class where I disrupted things. A few years later, I found the Unitarian
Church.
Shortly
after my arrest in the sit-in, I stopped by my parents’ home. Jim’s wife was there, holding her head as if
the world had ended. Because I had
joined CORE and the integrationists, Jim decided to do something to restore
honor to the family. He sent some money
to George Lincoln Rockwell of the American Nazi Party. In the following years when we met, his usual
greeting was “How are the burr heads doing?”
He meant the Blacks. I would roll
my eyes.
I do not
know exactly when, but for a time he quit sailing and drove a taxi, a Metry
Cab. He lived in Metairie, the suburb
adjacent to NO. In the 1960s with the
new Administration, he would sometimes say, “Oooh that Bobby. They’re goin to get that Bobby” (meaning
Attorney General Robert Kennedy). I
ignored such fulminations. But he said
this more and more when I saw him. I
dismissed such ravings.
It must
have been early 1964, the first time we say each other in awhile. Jim gloated, “What I tell you? Didn’t I tell you they were going to get him?” What do you mean? What are you talking about?”
I asked annoyed. “Didn’t I tell you they
were goin to get Kennedy?” “What?!” my
tone rose in amazement. Then I added, “Well,
you said they were going to get Bobby.” “So
they got the other one instead.”
Shocked. Then exasperated I asked
another question, “Who is the they you keep talking about?” “The mob out in the Parish.” Out in the Parish meant Jefferson Parish,
where Metairie is located. The mob there
was Carlos Marcello.
In 1964
this sounded so bizarre, I then walked away from such foolishness. Why should I, a Tulane grad with a BA and an
MA listen to the ravings of a poorly educated taxi driver? My arrogance, my ignorance was exposed in my
dismissive tones. Later many researchers
seek to link Marcello, who at times worked with Banister and Ferrie, to the
assassination in Dallas. In early 1964,
it just seemed crazy to me, and I changed the subject
Jim may not
have known anything. He may have just
been raving. But I wish I had listened
more to my poorly educated relatives. I
might have learned a great deal.
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